This summer I decided to enroll her twice a week and to keep it on going intsead of just a 2 week session like I have done in the past. She has screamed and thrown a fit before almost every one of her classes and it has been so frustrating just trying to get her in the car. Every week it's the same thing, "But Mommy, I don't wanna go!! I don't wanna put my face in the water!" [whaaaa waaaaa and on and on] My reply, "Well, I'm sorry, BUT you're going." The other day she literally was still throwing a fit by the time we got to her lesson that I said, "That's it!" and I took her in the bathroom as she was screaming, "But I don't wanna put my face in the water!!!!" Yes, everyone in the pool area could hear her. Oh, joyful day. I basically just blurted out with hardly anymore patience left in my body, "Well, I don't know what to tell you, Rylee! You get your face wet at swim class!" I don't have a clue what happened, but all of a sudden I could see that something just miraculously clicked inside her 5 year old mind and she said sniffling, "Okay, Mommy... I'm going to put my face in." She stopped crying, went out, got in the water [and even had a smile on her face] and did everything her instructor asked her to do. Every time she would put her face in she would emerge with the world's biggest and proudest smile I had ever seen! After class when we got in the car she started telling me, "Mommy, I like how I feel after I go to swimming...and gymnastics. I feel proud of myself." I seriously could not believe my ears!!! Was that my 5 year old??!
Later that night at bed time I was telling her how proud I was of her and that even though going under water is a scary thing for her, she didn't let it stop her. She then said to me so grown-up-like, "Well, Mommy, I believe in myself...and if something scares you, you just gotta do it!" Well said from my 5 year old. By that time I was so incredibly proud I was about to pop!! I couldn't believe she was "getting it"! Stuff I have been telling her since she was probably way too little to understand, but she was actually getting it and believing it and living it!!!! Yay! Go Rylee! :)
And just a little info I think is kinda cool...We picked Rylee's name because it means 'fearless' and 'courageous'. :) Her middle name is Grace. Fearless Grace.
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